The Client Who Taught Me About True Partnership
August 3, 2025 · 825 words
Published by Steven Delaney
I've been in the MSP business for over 15 years, and I've worked with hundreds of clients. But there's one relationship that fundamentally changed how I think about my role as a service provider.
Her name was Maria Rodriguez, and she owned a small marketing agency in downtown Houston. When we first started working together, I was still operating under the old model of MSP relationships: they had problems, I fixed them. They needed technology, I provided it. It was transactional, professional, but not particularly deep.
Maria changed all of that.
The Turning Point
The shift happened during a routine quarterly business review. I was going through my standard presentation about uptime statistics, security updates, and upcoming maintenance when Maria stopped me.
"Steven, I don't just want to know what you've done for me. I want to know what you're going to do for me. How are you going to help me grow my business?"
That question caught me off guard. I was prepared to talk about technical performance, but Maria was asking about business performance. She wasn't just looking for a service provider; she was looking for a partner.
The Evolution of Our Relationship
From that moment forward, our relationship changed completely. Instead of just responding to technical issues, I started thinking proactively about how technology could help Maria's business grow.
When she mentioned that her team was struggling with client communication, I didn't just suggest a new email system. I researched her industry, understood her workflow, and proposed a comprehensive client management solution that included CRM, project management, and communication tools.
When she talked about wanting to expand her team, I didn't just recommend new computers. I helped her design a scalable IT infrastructure that could grow with her business.
The Ripple Effects
What started as a simple shift in perspective had profound effects on both our businesses:
For Maria: Her agency grew from 5 employees to 25 in just two years. Technology became an enabler of growth rather than a necessary evil.
For Me: I learned that being a true MSP partner meant understanding not just technology, but business strategy, industry trends, and growth opportunities.
For Our Relationship: We moved from vendor-client to true business partners. Maria trusted me with strategic decisions, and I invested in understanding her business goals.
The Partnership Model
This experience taught me that there are really two types of MSP relationships:
Service Provider Model: Client has a problem, MSP fixes it. Client needs technology, MSP provides it. Transactional, reactive, limited scope.
Partnership Model: MSP understands client's business goals and proactively suggests technology solutions that drive growth. Collaborative, proactive, strategic scope. This approach is rooted in the principles of Harvard Business Review's strategic partnership framework that successful businesses use to create mutual value.
The difference isn't just in how we approach problems; it's in how we think about opportunities.
Lessons Learned
Working with Maria taught me several important lessons about building true partnerships:
Listen Beyond the Technical: When clients talk about business challenges, they're often revealing opportunities for technology solutions.
Think Strategically: Don't just solve today's problems; anticipate tomorrow's needs.
Invest in Understanding: Take time to learn about your client's industry, competitors, and growth plans.
Be Proactive: Don't wait for clients to ask for help; offer solutions before they know they need them.
The Broader Impact
The Maria Rodriguez experience didn't just change one client relationship; it transformed my entire approach to MSP services. I started applying the partnership model to all my clients, and the results were remarkable:
- Client Retention: Our retention rate increased from 85% to 98%
- Revenue Growth: Average client spend increased by 40% as we became more valuable partners
- Referrals: Clients started referring us to other businesses because they saw us as strategic partners
- Job Satisfaction: My team was more engaged because they felt like they were making a real difference
The Challenge for MSPs
Here's the thing about the partnership model: it requires more from us as MSPs. We can't just be good technicians; we need to be good business advisors. We need to understand industries, markets, and growth strategies.
But the rewards are worth the effort. When you're truly partnering with your clients, you're not just providing a service; you're building something together.
The Bottom Line
Maria's marketing agency is now one of the most successful agencies in Houston. She credits much of that success to the technology infrastructure and strategic guidance we provided. But I credit her with teaching me what it really means to be an MSP.
She showed me that our job isn't just to keep systems running; it's to help businesses thrive. And that's a much more rewarding way to work.
What's your experience with building true partnerships with clients? Have you had similar transformative relationships? I'd love to hear your stories.

Steven Delaney
MSP Industry Expert • Houston, TX
Strategic insights and practical guidance for the modern Managed Service Provider. Based in Houston, TX.